Men’s Secrets

The majorities of men seem predicted. At least, in the sex. Everything that someone of them could pronounce aloud about its experiences, sensations and preferences, already wrote down enterprising researchers and they printed in the clever books by the name like “typical man sexual behavior”. That, in what very descendants of Adam we could not agree, they named “individual reaction to the stimulus”… So that everything is simple: if pretit trial-and-error method, you take “instruction on the use” and… you reveal that, can, somewhere and are conducted “men typical”, but here your- that in many respects from them is differed. Armed by female curiosity and seditious thought about the general individuality man sexuality, we left to develop our own bicycle – to search for answer to the question: that think and feel the real, living men. Magic of kiss Vitalius, 25 years, the programmer: “in my view, in the kiss is important not technology, but feelings. To kiss the dear woman it is desirable always and everywhere. This is most tender erotic kindness. Tangue, mouth, lip – with them it is possible to manufacture everything anything. In order “to breathe in” into me life, to my wife several hot potseluychikov be sufficient “. From the psychologist. In the ancient peace the kiss was considered the manifestation of confidence. If man allowed to approach to himself someone “up to the distance of kiss”, i.e., close, which means, this person he considered friend. And now for some he remains the required part of the greeting. From seksologa. To kiss with that loved is exceptionally useful for the health. With the kiss adrenaline, which reduces on no influence of the hormone of the stress of cortisone, intensely is separated, and also is manufactured the endorphin, which weakens pain and damping nerves. But another kiss – this is the unique vascular massage: amateurs to kiss more rarely suffer vegetovascular dystonia and disturbance of blood circulation. Moreover passionate kissings run 30 facial muscles, which greatly contributes to the elasticity of the skin. 12 kilocalories are expended during one kiss. However, one should consider that the “therapeutic” kiss must last three minutes. Strip tease for that loved Nikolai, 29 years, the businessman: “this is very healthy! When my girl begins to undress, 4 here I am excited. Even if simply it changes clothes after work! Usually to the moment, when it removes underbodice, 4 it is already ready to study with it sex “. From the psychologist. In the majority of men the right hemisphere of the brain prevails above the leftist, therefore they love that the fact that they see. But women, in which, as a rule, predominates left hemisphere, first, then they hear. Probably, therefore boy- adolescents, passing the way of sexual development, prefer pornographical periodicals, and girl – amorous novels. In the sex and in any other matter, if the partner of something wants, it is necessary to try to find a compromise and to satisfy his desire. Is not otherwise excluded probability that it will make this elsewhere. From seksologa. That, to whom for any reasons it is difficult to present to that loved strip tease in its own performance, can soak autotraining (as in the film, you do remember? “4 the most charming and most attractive”) and “strip- rehearsal” before the mirror. But before the “premiere” it is good to dispose that loved to the romantic harmony: to prepare supper corresponding to the case, to light up spark plugs. “mission” is feasible! Timur, 32 years, the doctor: “in each of the poses there are its pluses. I adore the so-called “missionary”. Most class in it – this to feel female body completely “. From the psychologist. “missionary” position – this mapping of the patriarchy, that ruled in the Puritan times, when to man it was assumed prevail, and to woman – to submit. But now precisely in this pose partners are maximally approached, best anything they feel each other. And not only physiologically. However, if man prefers only this pose, then, possibly, its female partner “leads” out of the bed, and thus he tries to stabilize their relations. From seksologa. If both partners prefer precisely this pose, then god, as the saying goes, to help. So that it not priyelas’, it is possible it to diversify. With the widely separated feet of sensation there will be some, with tightly compressed – others, with the roller under the back – the thirds. But if, on the contrary, in partners different desires, are best to conclude “dzhentl’menskoye agreement”: “you – to me, 4 – to you”. He reaches orgasm in the manner that he pleases herself it, and then helps this to make dear, being guided by its wishes. “I kiss me everywhere…” Yevgeny, 19 years, the student: “oral sex greatly pleases itself me, and to my girl. Language and lips are much tender and more skillful than hands. It read, that to girl to subdue itself and to be decided to oral kindness is in no way simple. Our morals is such. Therefore that that my dear makes for me, I greatly value. It loves me and tries to deliver the maximum of pleasure. Exactly as 4 by it “. From the psychologist. According to the data of American psychologists, almost 100% of interrogated men gave preference to women, who practice oral sex, and not only because of the pleasant sensations, but also because they feel themselves in this case desired and loved. Problem consists in the fact that many women on a whole series of reasons do not love to be occupied by it. In the oral sex the main thing – to remove psychological barrier. If woman actually loves her partner and he completely to it entrusts, this is simple. There is nothing dirty or indecent in such kindness. But if something does not get along with the oral sex, it is necessary to thoroughly analyze situation and it is clear to formulate for itself, that precisely it does not arrange to arrive at a compromise. And also, oral kindness in majority its prelude to the sexual report, therefore, if man in no way otherwise wants to be occupied by love, it will not prevent from consult in seksopatologa. From seksologa. Why this does please itself men? Yes because they are so physiologically arranged. The most sensitive zone in them – the head of penis, and oral kindness, in contrast to strokings, give additional humidity and temperature. Well and, of course, the most skillful knobs will not make that, on that is capable the language, not to mention usual sexual report. This is similar on… Vladislav, 20 years, the salesman- consultant: “… explosion when stress attains the highest point, organism literally explodes. But blast wave you catches and bears, it bears… ” Aleksandr, 27 years, the manager: “… popping. In to nose begins grow the shchekochushcheye sensation, until at the specific moment it concludes with loud chikhom. And then begins this calmness!.. Multiply pleasure from chikha 1000 – and you will obtain man orgasm “. From the psychologist. Men more greatly are oriented to the orgasm, while women – to process… To the majority of men is nearer the physiological side of sex, whereas to many women – psychological. Sexual excitation without the discharging is detrimental for representatives of both sexes. If in man some difficulties appear, then for woman it is worthwhile to attempt soak to it to obtain discharging. Not for whom not the secret: through the sensations with the orgasm and after it seemingly leave any negative emotions, sets in psychological discharging. From seksologa. Physiologically orgasm – this, in the first place, ejaculation. However, abstention is detrimental for the health of man! If man rarely gets rid of the sperm (not importantly, night whether this of pollution, or orgasm from the sexual report), begin the developments of stagnation in the prostate, which can lead to prostatitis. Concept “is rare” for each its. Distortion or refinement? Sergey, 35 years, the jurist: “me pleases itself anal sex. This is not with which incomparable sensation, when penis is very tightly compressed from all sides. Complete enthusiasm, as if you again seize virgin!”
Yuri, 43 years, the docent: “we with the wife deal with this not frequently. During the anal sex I feel special proximity with it. And I am excited much more than with the usual sexual report. And orgasms in this case in me are very strong. But for the anal sex is necessary special mood “. From the psychologist. Anal sex was always considered the lot of gays and the manifestation of superiority of one “male” over another (for example, in the criminal medium). It was possible even into the prison to please in the Soviet times for this. In the relations with the woman it completely was received as distortion. But the reason for this to it relation lies in our mentality and low level of sexual culture. From seksologa. The majority of people has the region of anus – bright erogennaya zone. And anal sex provides pleasure to many women. Men it pleases itself because muscle of sphincter are tighter and are more elastic, than sheath. In order to avoid breaks and cracks, it is necessary to begin slowly, compulsorily by using a lubricant. Both in the metro and into the casino Sasha, 49 years, the artist: “me pleases itself sex in the public places. The powerful flow of adrenaline goes for a walk along the blood, in the brain the thought is beaten, that someone stranger can see, hear, catch unaware each minute. All this adds perchika into the customary relations. This sex akin to animal instinct. It does not require preliminary lask, care. He wants to be here and now and as soon as possible “. From the psychologist. Numerous studies showed that men – “hereditary” soldiers and to hunters – pleases itself the spontaneous, playful express- sex, this in their instincts. In contrast to them woman in majority its, although subconsiously and they love to submit to the strong, suggesting confidence partner, they prefer leisurely romantic prelude to the sex and safety. Ideal version – to know how to combine wish of both sides, otherwise this sex not only will not deliver pleasure, but also will cause negative emotions. From seksologa. The longer the partners together, the more frequently appears the need for the change of situation. And for the benefit it will go both. Only done everything must be with the mind in order fear to be caught “on the spot of crime” would not exceed a feeling of satisfaction from this sex. Before the “debut” is better to conduct mini- reconnaissance and to select place pouyutneye. And to ask that loved not to boost event, but to begin gradually. However, just as in everything, concerning relations of two, is here acceptable that is greeted by both. And here it arose… But it is further that? Vladimir, 21 yr, the student: “it occurs, erection begins suddenly. He saw, for example, in the transport, beautiful girl you already feel, it begins. Is inconvenient, the word of honor. 4 not maniacs are some in order so to react violently. But I cannot check. I begin to be distracted, to think about the football… ” From the psychologist. The erection of penis in man (with rare exception) – this is the proposal to study sex. If it are ignored, it will feel otvergnutost’. Indeed for the men sex – this is the means of the expression of the unexpressed emotions, in certain cases – the only possible. And our “I got tired” they sound as “4 you I do not love” for them. As a result the man can even lose sexual interest in the woman, who constantly to it rejects. Especially is dangerously to negative answer about the penis of man. At best it will try “to find one additional opinion”, in the worse – it will begin to suffer of inferiority complex with all ensuing consequences. So that you tell the dear man compliments. In the depth of soul it is proud and is enraptured by its member and it will happy learn, that you think so. If it “is ready”, try to it not to reject. Find the method to deliver pleasure. In the debt it will not remain. From seksologa. The mechanism of the appearance of erection is simple. The cavernous bodies of penis are filled up with the blood, and it increases in the size. And to understand, as this occurs, is easy, after listening to its own sensations. Female clitoris on the structure is very similar to the term and in exactly the same manner it will swell. Well, perhaps that it is necessary to multiply by the difference in the size. It is now more intelligible? Initiative… is punished? Maxim, 38 years, the producer: “on work 4 – the solid successful person. But in the sex I want entirely different – to be subordinated. Therefore with happiness I return into the hands of beauty confident in itself. And I experience from this not with which the not comparable pleasure “. From the psychologist. It is desirable to determine the sexual type of its man (for example, with the aid of the tests). Possible, to be subordinated – the style of its life. It is possible that this altogether only sexual fantasy… It is completely probably, it is not confident in the fact that they love it, and it expects initiative from the side of female partner, which will know how it to convince of the fact that it zhelanen. Only one time to appear initiative and to accept its passiveness, and, excluded, this it will be sufficiently in order to remove stress and to scatter all doubts… But can, it – categorically the enemy of “fashionable movements”, that considers that the initiative of woman in the bed “is punished”… After being determined, it is worth trying to be disposed to its wave. In the sex – as in the dance. Skillful partner conducts his female partner, and they become single whole. It is thought, not it will by exaggeration say that it wants many women this unity. But not in vain we do fall “outside husband”? From seksologa. The physiology of woman is such, that the “first violin” in the sex must belong precisely to it. Indeed when the initiator of amorous joys becomes man, woman does not always manage it “to overtake”. She more slowly is excited, and it means, time in order to dostich’ orgasm, by it also it is necessarily more. Therefore, if we “check process” it will begin woman, contented will remain both partners.